Embracing Humanity: Lessons from Irish Encounters

We grasped hands and held tightly, probably longer than appropriate considering we were mere strangers at the start. But our short yet profound conversation bonded us in a serendipitous way.

“Mind yourself,” he said, with a sudden solemnity before releasing his grip. “God bless you.”

God bless you too, dear sir.

We stepped down from the train and parted ways.

Oh, do I love the people of Ireland.

I had meaningful exchanges with folks of various ages and lands while, at times, exploring the Emerald Isle solo (when my good friend and overseas travel partner was busy with work). Many good laughs with them too, sometimes at my own expense, like with the taxi driver who couldn’t get over the fact that I was on vacation but wanted to be taken to the Roscommon Library.

My time in Ireland was just weeks before the contentious 2024 U.S. election. I was once again reminded how closely other countries watch ours. There were strong opinions and spirited conversations to be had.

But in the end I came to the same conclusion I always do.

We have deep commonalities with people we don’t know, even those who look, sound, or seem so very different than ourselves.

On this Thanksgiving week, I’m thankful not only for my close, beloved family, extended family, and friends; but for the entire human family.

Every single color, creed, and nation—we’re in this life together.

We are vulnerable, dependent creatures who can’t do it alone. We have a child-like yearning and an emptiness we seek to fill.

We’re flawed. We’re imperfect. We’re weak.

But connecting makes us stronger.

Sharing kindness, empathy, smiles, and laughter really does make a difference.

When we reach out to others, we remember why we’re here.

And, truly, each one of us, whether we know it yet or not, is here to love.